Many women fear this practice. Wrong because sodomy can bring a lot of pleasure to both partners. Provided however to adopt the necessary precautions.
Compulsory agreement and complicity
The demand is usually male. But if it’s a first time for you, do not accept it lightly, for the sole purpose of pleasing your companion. We must have talked about it together, that desire be shared and the wish very real before passing this course. And like any new adventure, we prepare slowly, but surely.
An anal area without reproach
Wash the anal and intrarectal area with warm water is desirable to eliminate the risk of dirt from materials collected in the rectal bulb. To do this, it is possible to use a small enema pear, on sale in a pharmacy or sex shop, or a shower cannula, “material” that you will not forget to clean after use. It is also advisable to have a bowel movement just before, in order to clear your intestines. Thus, sodomy will be all the more comfortable and pleasant.
Think about condoms
The latter is strongly recommended for two reasons: firstly, anal intercourse favors the risk of infection by a sexually transmitted infection, especially HIV; on the other hand, they can promote the occurrence of urinary infections in men who do not protect themselves or in the woman whose partner goes from anal to vaginal penetration without washing. Indeed, many colibacilli proliferate in the colon and can win on this occasion the bladder. Also caution during menstruation is a time when the risk of transmission of microbes and viruses is higher. However, in a monogamous relationship, when one is certain of his or her partner, one can possibly make the impasse on it.
Preliminaries in the rules of the art
The ideal is to stimulate his or her partner simultaneously in the genital and anal areas with gentle caresses to gradually increase the excitement. These preliminaries also promote relaxation and abandonment, thus the opening of the body and anus, and avoid reflex defense contractions that could prevent penetration. But if preparation is essential, sharing and listening to the other also come into play. Taking time, watching how he or she reacts is important before starting. Without these basic precautions, anything that can be linked to practices performed with precipitation, under the influence of a violent excitation, may cause pain, irritation or even anal fissures.
A lubricant, but not just any
The anal mucosa, unlike the vagina, does not provide sufficient natural lubrication. Without lubricant, the penetration may be less easy and cause small lesions painless and invisible, but sufficient to pass viruses and microbes. Apply, during the foreplay, then during penetration, a water-based lubricant, compatible with condoms. If you do not use these, a greasy lubricant such as Vaseline or an intimate care based on vegetable fats will do just fine.
The right position to start
That of raising the legs to bring the knees under the chin is the most conducive to complicity, because it allows to be face to face, eyes in the eye. It is also possible to adopt a genu-pectoral position, that is to say kneeling, the chest resting on the sheet, which facilitates the opening of the anus.
A smooth penetration
It is a question of not forcing or going to the hilt while watching for the reactions of one’s partner. Move back and forth slowly and then more supported if the person is receptive and gives up without contracting. By stimulating the clitoris or the penis, penetration is often better accepted and the sensations exacerbated.
Attention to the exit
After ejaculation, it is necessary to wait for the detumescence of the penis before retiring, because a turgid glans could traumatize the tissues and cause small tears in the anus. For the same reasons, it is advisable to withdraw very slowly when the act is interrupted before orgasm.
Caution with sex toys
The anus is a tonic muscle that sucks and can swallow up to the rectum any foreign element. This can then go to lodge in the intestine, with the risk of perforation and infection. This is why we must go immediately to the emergency department, where a medical evaluation will decide what to do. There are girls who like sex toys, plugs or vibrators enlarged at the end, specially designed for the anal area, which eliminate this risk. However, these toys should be used with lubricating gel and remember to clean them thoroughly after use.
Hemorrhoids, a contraindication
Sodomy does not produce hemorrhoids. On the other hand, when a person has it, it can promote a crisis whose symptoms (inflammation, pain, bleeding, ulcerations) depend on the importance of the anterior hemorrhoids. It is therefore preferable to avoid this type of practice if one suffers from frequent hemorrhoidal crises.